On Understanding Compatibility
Entering college is truly one of the most intriguing phase of a student life. Here, they're a lot of extraordinary individuals owning various personality. Each day passing upon someone's existence is exquisite. They're artsy, sporty, people who excel on academic flawlessly, bitches and lost souls. It's fascinating how one individual could be friends or enemies with another. Humans are bodies with inner souls and each one of it possess energy that can and couldn't become compatible with others.
Lately, I've been contemplating on the distinct compatibility we find with other people. They're some people we thought to be compatible so we tend to settle with them for a sense of familiarity, specially when you are in the environment where you are not fond with anyone. However, when we just randomly interact with someone else there's this uncanny feeling that the both of you click, proceeding into the fathomless stuff instantly. You start to question, why it takes me so long to be so vulnerable with one person yet only a few seconds with the other. It's because they possess different energy.
I have read on an article before (@isabel) that we commonly connect with others for two reasons ;
a. Circumstance level connection - through sharing similar life experiences, memories and background information. Despite having a lot of interaction, you never appear to be compatible enough to penetrate each other's soul. This connection can be useful in discovering each other's outward roots, but it lacks and can never touch the inward connection. ( shared experience )
b. Soul level connection - through a similar outlook of life, introspection, mutual interest and curiosity, values and standpoint about the world. It's the feeling like you already know someone even though you just met. This connection flows naturally that can actually make you feel safe. Despite not having connection for a long time, once the conversation proceed it will come up with the most burning and exciting matter. ( shared perspective )
Look how yourself valued the people, you have a soul level connection with. It is what humans crave for. Someone who they can share their thoughts, what's in their mind, in their hearts, discussing things you really want to talk about.The level you talk with others is the level of how much you know yourself and some people just dont know themselves. You shouldn't blame yourself for only having an outer conection with others. The energies don't match and it should never be force. It is not that some people are deeper than others, it's the matter of how deeply you have gone to yourself. For example, a person has talk deeply about their hobbies and interest - if the other one couldn't relate it is because they have never explored their own hobbies and interest. Even if someone have different likes and dislikes as long as they know want it is, they can actually click. How can you be able to talk about your ideas, perspective and thoughts if you don't know what it is. As simple as that.
Soul level connection is like finding a new part of yourself. It's the people who can make you feel at home. Full of essence, fondness and sincerity. You have a connection with no ego tainting what you were saying. People who can let you become a 100% of yourself are the right signal. Soul level connection are the gift of life. Finding people that awakens your inner soul and upbringing more life lessons is to grow and realize.
"The deeper you go inwards, the more awake and conscious you are, and the more awake and conscious you want to become. Eventually, having conversations that do not tap into your current level of consciousness and perspective begins to drain more than it nourishes. In these times, it’s important to seek the people, places, and activities that activate you that make you come alive, bring out your inner child, help you know yourself deeper, enable your epiphanies." - Isabel
Compatibility is important as you will know how you could interact with others specially in the world where socializing can lead to more oppurtunity. Life is full of connection. Its the matter of how you will tap it in. Different connection serves us in different ways they're both necessary in life and whatever connection you have with others it is still the most important that you are genuine enough with the words you say.
